Today is the Day

I remember when I was suffering in the midst of my addiction and I was always going to do something tomorrow. Whether it was being a better husband, father, son, brother, employee it never was now it was always tomorrow and as the saying goes “tomorrow never comes”. Unfortunately, for most people suffering from alcoholism and drug addiction they die before tomorrow ever comes.

What I have learned over time is that today is the day. Today is all I am given and what I do with today will help determine my tomorrow if I have fortunate enough to receive one. I am responsible for today and all that I am given, both good and bad, is what God has chosen for me to have.

I have decided to use each day to celebrate the freedom from the bondage of addiction and rejoice in the fullness of the love of God.

1. I will make it a point today to say I love you to those who are near and dear to me.
2. I will pray for an opportunity to make a positive difference in the life of someone who needs to be encouraged.
3. I will ask God to help me become the person He desires.
4. I will thank God for all He has given.

Today is the Day

Lend a helping hand

Over the years I have met many people who do not believe they can help a person suffering from alcohol or drug addiction because they have never experienced it themselves. This is far from true. It is true that having information regarding addiction can be helpful but, it is not required to be an encouragement to someone suffering from the despair that comes with their drinking and or using.

What people need most is someone to care. They need someone to listen without judging and instead of trying to fix them just love them. The addicted already know that their behavior is wrong and destructive even if they don’t admit it. What is most helpful is to establish an open relationship with them that when they are feeling remorse or looking for someone to share their fears and despair you would be someone they would turn to.

In the meantime, be the best friend you can be.